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Complex Numbers #1012488 added June 25, 2021 at 12:03am
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Entry #7 of 8 for "Journalistic Intentions"  [18+]
 Insomnia is just another way to brand yourself "not normal". -Black Crisis 
You know, something that's been percolating in the back of my mind for a while has to do with the tension between "being normal" and "standing out."
This generally peaks in high school and diminishes thereafter, but these days, I think it continues long into adulthood.
Clothing, hairstyles, activities... doesn't matter; lots of people walk the line between being too ordinary (and thus overlooked) and too weird (and thus dismissed as eccentric).
This is bad enough when you're actually in high school. There, you're among, at most, a couple of thousand teenagers (which, when put like that, makes me wonder how anyone has the stamina to be a teacher or school administrator). Like, my high school had around 1600 students, as I recall, roughly 400 in each class. With numbers like that it's not too hard to find ways to be noticed while still being accepted in a peer group.
Then maybe you get to college or trade school, and the numbers get larger, so you have to do more to excel at something. Fortunately, by then, the burning desire to "fit in" generally starts to recede. Still, there, depending on the school, you're competing for attention with several thousand other students.
But that was the old days.
Now, you have to walk that line not just for your immediate circles, but in competition with several billion people infesting the internet. Some people can do it through talent, looks, or smarts. For the rest of us, though, we're left with Stupid Human Tricks.
Or, for those who realize that Stupid Human Tricks can be dangerous, we have to find other ways to differentiate ourselves from the vast unwashed masses. For them, there's Munchausen's.
Now, I don't mean that to imply that people who talk about their various physical and/or psychological troubles are faking it. But even if it's real, it's a way to garner attention and sympathy, and to stand out from the crowd.
I'm not going to mention any examples here, because I'm not trying to offend anyone. But I will offer a counterexample: Chadwick Bosemen, who kept his cancer diagnosis to himself (and, presumably, some close friends sworn to secrecy). Of course, he had no need to seek out sympathy for attention; he was a talented actor. Those of us who don't get to be major movie stars, though, we have to take our attention where we can get it -- positive or negative.
And I don't want anyone thinking I'm ragging on them for this. It's just human nature, and I've talked about some of my own issues in here, too. Of course, we have to watch out for those few who do fake it to get sympathy. This usually takes three forms:
Munchausen's Syndrome: Faking (or exaggerating) illness for attention
Munchausen's-by-proxy: Faking illness in another person (often a child) for attention
Munchausen's-behind-proxies: Faking illness (in yourself or others) online for attention (and sometimes GoFundMe).
Okay, yes, I totally made that last one up. But I've seen it happen.
Of all of the possible ways to beg for attention, though (getting back to the original prompt quote there), insomnia is pretty tame compared to other things you can bitch about suffering. Most people have had it at least occasionally (myself included), so it's easy to sympathize. No one is going to think you're trying to scam them out of money by faking insomnia, not like with cancer or whatever. And it's not going to scare the unenlightened, like say talking about your schizophrenia.
Bottom line is, yes, it's hard to stand out in a crowded world. And maybe I should just give up trying.
Perhaps I'll sleep on it. Because I can. Because I don't have insomnia? Get it?
Oh, never mind. Even my so-called jokes don't make me "not normal." |
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