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Complex Numbers #1061666 added January 1, 2024 at 8:57am
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Gratuitous
Same shit, different year. Let's see what the random numbers have in store for this first day of '24 (hey, that rhymed)...
Uh oh, I gotta handle a New Yorker article while hungover? Curse you, random numbers!
I've chiseled tipping articles in here before... including one almost a year ago which used the pun in their headline before TNY even thought of it: "Tipping Point" 
Consequently, I'll try to limit my ranting to stuff I haven't covered before. I doubt I'll be entirely successful.
Before screens, tipping, like a marriage proposal, was a private affair.
No. People proposed in public prior to posting on Pinterest (or whatever).
Tips can reveal hidden values or the rumblings of the subconscious.
Mostly, though, they reveal who's an asshole and who's not, and a range in between.
A waitress’s breast size, for instance, correlates positively with tip size.
Correlation isn't causation. Maybe waitresses with ample bazooms provide better service. I should do a scientific study.
Etiquette experts studied the so-called guilt-tip boom.
And reached, mostly, the wrong conclusions.
Apparently, we now tip assistant sports coaches (up three hundred and sixty-seven per cent) and theatre-box-office staff (up a hundred and sixty-one per cent).
Okay, look. Those numbers are absolutely meaningless out of context. Used to tip a dime, now tip a quarter? That's a hundred and fifty percent increase. Also, the sentence itself reveals that "we" (not me) have always tipped assistant sports coaches (WHY) and theater staff, because if those started from a baseline of 0, there's no way to express an increase from that baseline as a percentage.
I've long ragged about lots of things TNY does. Publishing long-winded, pretentious articles. Promoting a dense, meandering writing style (I've called it The New Yorker School of Not Gettiing to the Fucking Point). Even adhering to anachronistic style standards, such as hyphenating teen-age or using diareses. But one thing I've always appreciated (besides the comics, which I've always found rather amusing) is their facts. Until this article.
It's not just the math thing, either.
The gratuity, classically, functions as a “thank-you,” but it can also serve as a “sorry.” People most often tip in settings where the workers are less happy than the customers. The Freudian Ernest Dichter once described the compulsion as “the need to pay, psychologically, for the guilt involved in the unequal relationship.”
Pretty much everything Freud proposed has been shown to be wrong. Consequently, I'm not going to take his followers' statements at face value, either, not without evidence. Also, I've never felt guilt (except on those rare occasions when I realize later that I should have tipped, but didn't). No, when I leave a tip, it's out of perceived obligation and/or generosity.
Michael Lynn, a marketing professor at Cornell, has studied tips for forty years, beginning when he was a bartender in graduate school. “When you think about it, you go, ‘Why would people give up money they don’t have to?’ ” In restaurants, he has found, the answer has to do with social approval.
Why would you give a gift to another person or to a charity? You don't have to. You'd have more money if you didn't.
English coffeehouses were said to set out urns inscribed with “To Insure Promptitude.” Customers tossed in coins. Eventually, the inscription was shortened to “TIP.”
This is the bit that pissed me off the most, though. And yes, I've ranted about this before, but no one listened. The word "tip" did not start out as an acronym. It's much older than the wordification of acronyms. The idea that it did is a false etymology, what I call a fauxtymology because while I hate other peoples' portmanteaux, I'm overly fond of my own. It's been thoroughly, completely, and definitively debunked, and anyone who still believes it has absolutely no business claiming to be an expert on tipping, or writing a book about it.
And The New Yorker should be ashamed of itself for letting that get published. Shame. Shame. If I had a rolled-up newspaper, I'd bop them on the nose for it.
Incidentally, "for unlawful carnal knowledge" and "ship high in transit" are also fauxtymologies.
After that wholehearted nonsense, I couldn't trust any other assertions in the article. Might still be worth reading, but I doubt it's going to change any minds. Personally, I'd like to see tipping go away entirely, replaced by decent wages and bonuses like other workers get. But unless that happens (which it won't in my lifetime), we're stuck with it.
Which doesn't mean we have to give in to tip-beggars in traditionally non-tipped positions. |
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