When dealing with loved ones I sometimes limit myself because I think in advance I know them. That notion sets a frame around my interpretation of their ideas or actions. This is not always right. Sometimes they surprise me and I have to let go of my pre-set mind. I have to give them a chance to fully be able to speak their minds without my bias of interpretation.

In my study, I have a photo of Saiku, my African foster child. A 5-year old in the picture, smiling and looking firmly into the camera. Saiku is 14 years old now and lives in Gambia with his parents and siblings. Because of my financial contribution he can go to school. Since I don’t have any kids of my own Saiku is very close to my heart. I like the idea that for one kid I made a difference in life. Once in a while, I get information on his whereabouts from the organization. He is doing great and lives a happy life.