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My name is Joy, and I love to write. Why poetry, here? Because poetry uplifts its writer, and if she is lucky enough, her readers, too. Around us, so many objects abound to write about. Once a poet starts with a smallest, most trivial object, he shall discover that his pen will spill out what is most delicate or most majestic hidden inside him. Since the classics sometimes dealt with lofty subjects with a lofty language, a person with poetry in his soul may incline to emulate that. That is understandable. Poetry does that to a person: it enlarges the soul and gives it wings. Yet, to really soar, a poet needs to take off from the ground. Kiya's gift. I love it!
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#966125 added September 13, 2019 at 1:15pm
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True Friends
How have your friendships with other women inspired you, or helped you to become a better you?

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First, the only person that can really make me better is me alone.

Then, while raising one of my sons, having dealt with what bad friends could do to a person, I do understand and appreciate the value of this question and the value of truly fine and moral friends.

I am careful with friendships, even though I am friendly with almost anyone, except the crooked people who act nice and call me on the phone as if they are from Medicare, which again happened a few minutes ago. You won’t believe how rude I am to such people.

My rule number one: A good friend will never force you into anything you don’t want to do, even if he or she detects danger.

Rule number two: A good friend will not encourage you if you are doing something wrong or hurtful to anyone else.

That just about covers it, with a few amendments here and there.

Having said all that, a good friendship has nothing to do with gender. It isn’t only the women who have made my life fuller. I have had and still have man friends who made much better friends than any she-friend I had.

In short, I think a true friend accepts you as you are, understands your life and work and what you have done so far, and hopes the best for your future.

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