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Complex Numbers
A complex number is expressed in the standard form a + bi, where a and b are real numbers and i is defined by i^2 = -1 (that is, i is the square root of -1). For example, 3 + 2i is a complex number.
The bi term is often referred to as an imaginary number (though this may be misleading, as it is no more "imaginary" than the symbolic abstractions we know as the "real" numbers). Thus, every complex number has a real part, a, and an imaginary part, bi.
Complex numbers are often represented on a graph known as the "complex plane," where the horizontal axis represents the infinity of real numbers, and the vertical axis represents the infinity of imaginary numbers. Thus, each complex number has a unique representation on the complex plane: some closer to real; others, more imaginary. If a = b, the number is equal parts real and imaginary.
Very simple transformations applied to numbers in the complex plane can lead to fractal structures of enormous intricacy and astonishing beauty.
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Well, April 1 is here. Remember, folks, pranks are only funny if they're not played on me.
Today's article is arguably funny, but it's not a prank; it's from Cracked:
Even though the thought experiment in theory is supposed to be a pure philosophical discussion â a conundrum cooked up to change your viewpoint on an issue in a compelling way â itâs lost a little bit of that shine, especially thanks to the internet.
Thought experiments have some limitations. That's why they should be left to professionals. Kind of like comedy.
Of course, a good thought experiment is a wonderful thing to kick around the old noggin. Youâve got your classic trolley problem, which only becomes more prescient now that cars are driving themselves (terribly).
People make fun of the trolley problem (and sometimes, rightly so), but it's not just autonomous vehicles that use it as a model. Pretty much any intervention can be likened to a trolley problem: Some large number x of people will face negative consequences if we do nothing; if we do something, some smaller number y will face negative consequences. Difficulty: y is not necessarily a subset of x.
As for AVs, that's a separate rant that I'll probably update at some point.
In particular, here are five thought experiments that the world doesnât need and nobody asked forâŚ
Four. Dang editors.
4. Buridanâs Ass
Ba-donka-donk.
The ass in question is a boring old donkey, who is starving, and standing equidistant between two bales of identical hay, each precisely as easy to reach and eat as the other.
I'm just going to pause here so you can get ass puns out of your system.
Ready?
Okay:
The question is, which bale of hay does the donkey choose, or â and this is a real situation people present â would the donkey simply be torn by indecision so deeply that it starves.
No. Come the fuck on.
3. The Life You Can Save
Hereâs the gist of it: If you were walking in your expensive work clothes and saw a drowning child, would you jump in to save them, even if it would ruin your fancy clothes? The answer to this, unless you are a sharply dressed sociopath, is obviously yes.
No, because while I learned how to swim as a child, I've forgotten everything about it. I jump in, regardless of what I'm wearing, there'll be two victims instead of one. Including, most importantly, me.
But alas! By answering yes you have fallen into Singerâs great trap! Because by the same belief, how could you freely spend money the way you do while a child starves somewhere else in the world! You are undone! How does that petard feel, dummy! This is the most grandiose false equivalence bullshit Iâve ever heard, and itâs created in service of something everybody already understands anyways: Yes, itâs easy to dehumanize people when you canât directly see them.
All of these things are Not My Problem.
2. Rokoâs Basilisk
This is, beyond the merest shadow of a doubt, the stupidest, inanest (?) excuse for a thought experiment ever concocted. I won't even dignify it with further comments or explanation. If you want to learn about it, there's the link up there, or just Google it.
1. Hamlet Monkeys
As much as I love monkeys, I never need to hear this tired-ass âthought experimentâ ever again. Itâs one of a whole smorgasbord of hypothetical situations created to constantly try to reinforce the idea that yes, infinity really does mean infinity. Itâs a delightful mental picture, but itâs wholly unnecessary. If someone doesnât understand that infinite time creates infinite possibilities, best of luck to them.
If you love monkeys, you've never been around monkeys. Here's the thing most people get wrong about this one: the original formulation is this:
The infinite monkey theorem states that a monkey hitting keys at random on a typewriter keyboard for an infinite amount of time will almost surely type any given text, such as the complete works of William Shakespeare. (Wikipedia)
This has gotten twisted over time into, instead of "infinite," "very large." And there's the problem: "very large" is still infinitely smaller than "infinite." While it's quite droll to observe that the idiocy you find on the internet disproves the infinite monkey theorem, we're only talking about a few billion apes (not monkeys) typing for the last, oh, let's be liberal here, fifty years. Neither of these numbers is anywhere even close to approaching infinity. So we shouldn't feel too bad that we haven't been able to surpass Shakespeare.
Well, some of us haven't. Cracked sometimes comes close. |
March 31, 2023 at 10:45am March 31, 2023 at 10:45am
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Very close to completing all the prompts at "JAFBG"  [XGC]...
Tell us about something/someone that fucked you off this week.
Ah, yes, the recurring reason to rant. Thing is, if I'd drawn this prompt with my random numbers earlier this month, I would have been stumped. For most of it, I didn't experience more than minor inconvenience, nothing worthy of a full-blown rant.
All that changed starting last Saturday.
Friday, with two pills left in each of my daily prescriptions, I called the pharmacy for refills. This is an automated system, which is fine; you just key in the prescription number for each one, the robot confirms it, and then, when you're done, you get told when they'll be ready for pickup. In this case, they clearly and unambiguously said "Saturday at 11 am."
Now, there's something else you need to know about my prescriptions. I think I've ranted about it before, but just to recap: My insurance sucks. The doctor sends a prescription for a 90-day supply. If I use my insurance, I have to get a 30-day supply, and it costs about $30. Here's the whatthe part: If I don't use insurance for the prescription, they happily sell me a 90-day supply. For about $30.
You read that right: With insurance, $90 for a 90-day supply. Without insurance, $30 for a 90-day supply.
There are other details, but that's the outline of it. So, getting back to the timeline here, remember, the prescriptions would be ready by 11am on Saturday. Well, I had other stuff to do Saturday, so I showed up at the pharmacy at 3pm. This particular pharmacy is in a grocery store, and I'm pretty sure they have standing orders to delay things to encourage people to shop. Still, I fully expected that, having been told the pills would be ready at 11, surely, definitely, without fail, they'd be done four hours later?
If you're reading this, you can guess what didn't happen.
And this wasn't the usual "oh, it'll be ready in 20 minutes; why don't you take a look at our lovely endcap displays and seasonal merchandise while you wait." No, it was "It might take an hour or so, if you want to come back." Well, I told them I'd come back the next day. Which was, if you've been keeping track, Sunday.
I walk in and the cashier is like "I can't find it."
I felt rage boiling up inside me. None of those pills are specifically for rage, either pro or con, but I'd cut it too close: failure to receive my prescriptions that day would mean missing at least one dose. Which, to be fair, probably wouldn't kill me, but I'd feel obligated to report it to my doctor later, and she'd undoubtedly shake her head in disapproval. Which is crushing.
So it wasn't really about the pills themselves, at this point. It was more about being jerked around by robots and cashiers. "But Waltz, isn't that just another minor inconvenience?" Yes, except that I have to deal with some kind of bullshit every time I get the pills, which, if you're following along, you know is four times a year. It wears on me. At least it's not 12 times a year, though, right?
My boil was short-lived, however; she somehow found the prescriptions. But then my brain went to: "Okay, if they forgot and used insurance, I'm going to blow my shit."
Fortunately, everything was in order. So the saga ends, anticlimactically, but at least without bloodshed. |
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I've always had a desire to go places I'm not allowed. What's through that door? How's the view from that tower? Wouldn't it be cool to climb the cables of a suspension bridge? That sort of thing.
I've never done it, though. I tend to follow rules.
Well, not never. I've never been caught, though.
Still, most of the things on this list don't trigger my wannago.
1. Ilha da Queimada Grande
Ilha da Queimada Grande, or âSnake Island,â is an island off the coast of Brazil thatâs home to a rare and incredibly deadly species of snake called the golden lancehead... The snakes are so dangerous that the Brazilian government has forbidden people from visiting the area.
Right now, most of you are going NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE. Personally, I think this would be cool (except for the venom part). I once visited a snake island near Antigua, and while the serpents there weren't venomous, a lot of people cowered in the boat. Me, I went actively looking for reptiles.
3. Ise Grand Shrine
The first iteration of this Shinto shrine in Japan was constructed around 2000 years ago, and since the late 7th century, itâs been torn down and rebuilt every two decades... While tourists can view it from the outside, the inside of the shrine is only accessible to the highest priestesses or priests.
This sort of thing is not uncommon in religion. Respecting it is one reason I tend to follow the "do not enter" rules. Still, I'd love to see it.
4. The Svalbard Global Seed Vault
No desire to go there. Not because it wouldn't be interesting, but because it's in fucking Svalbard.
5. The Vatican's Secret Archives
Established in 1612, the Vatican Apostolic Archive (formerly the Vaticanâs Secret Archives) contains the personal documents of all the popes.
Fiction makes this place out to be a collection of everything the CC doesn't want the rest of us to know (which, in a way, it is), but the reality is probably far less interesting. Also, I'd wager few, if any, of the documents would be in the only language I can read fluently.
7. Uluru (Formerly Ayers Rock)
Following petitions from the Anangu people, the board of the Uluru-Kata Tjuta National Park finally announced plans in 2017 to ban hikers from the site for good.
Oh, good. Now do Bear Lodge (aka Devil's Tower).
10. Montserratâs Designated Exclusion Zone
When the Soufrière Hills volcano awoke from dormancy in 1995, the nearby town of Plymouth was evacuated and eventually abandoned altogether as eruptions continued. Ash consumed the town, turning it in a modern-day Pompeii. While the volcano is not as destructive as it was a few decades ago, thereâs a chance it could erupt again, which means more than half the island is still a designated exclusion zone.
I... well, I might have gone a foot or two (or maybe more) into the exclusion zone, just so I could say I did.
It remains the only active volcano I've watched (the ones in Hawai'i were inactive when I visited), so that's something, anyway.
12. Area 51
There are lots of places I won't go out of respect for the people involved. Then there's this place, which I won't go to out of respect for not wanting to get shot.
17. The Ethiopian Church That Claims to Hold the Ark of the Covenant
Ethiopia claims that itâs home to the Ark of the Covenant. Itâs kept in a church in the city of Aksum thatâs so closely guarded, even Indiana Jones would have trouble getting in.
Ethan Hunt wouldn't.
And then he'd be disappointed, because the Ark of the Covenant isn't there. But at least he could add it to his list of "places he went to that he shouldn't ought to have." |
March 29, 2023 at 12:09pm March 29, 2023 at 12:09pm
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Another prompt from "JAFBG" [XGC] today...
Do you think that kindness is its own reward or should people be grateful for acts of generosity and kindness? What if they're not?
I find that there's a vast, yawning chasm between "should be" and "are."
Many people seem to labor under the delusion that they should be self-sufficient at all times. Which is silly; every life has its ups and downs. Any "help," therefore, generates not gratitude but resentment—resentment that while they're struggling, someone else is doing just fine; well enough, in fact, to dribble charity from their champagne glass.
They might grit their teeth into a rictus and mutter thanks, but inside, they're seething. Possibly even plotting revenge.
Not everyone is like that, of course. But enough are that, if you're feeling generous, you need to be careful. Read the room. Sometimes, the best help you can give someone is to let them sort things through themselves, kind of like in the "tough love" prompt from a few weeks ago.
On the other side, though, performing an act of generosity or kindness should, by definition, come with no strings attached. No expectations, not even of gratitude. Again, we run up against that chasm: some gifts have strings attached, which is just another source of resentment.
Me? I've been in tight situations, and only gotten out of them because of the kindness of others. I don't rely on the kindness of others, because that would be sort of like relying on the clouds to part when you're trying to view a lunar eclipse (it could happen, I want it to happen, but I don't count on it). Consequently, when in a position to help, I try to do so—always bearing in mind that it could be a trap, because there are also those who would take advantage of kindness.
Still, if someone's scamming, that's on them. If I fail to help in a situation where someone genuinely needs it, that's on me.
Gratitude is optional, but it makes the experience that much more pleasant. |
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Ever wonder why we here in the US use an archaic system of measurements? This article Britsplains it.
Surprisingly, the answer isn't "because apart from the Revolution, we don't like change."
I don't know how historically accurate this is, but it's a good story.
In 1793, French scientist Joseph Dombey sailed for the newly formed United States at the request of Thomas Jefferson carrying two objects that could have changed America. He never made it, and now the US is stuck with a retro version of measurement that is unique in the modern world.
That's rich coming from Brits who a) definitely do use miles to talk about distance, while measuring petrol in liters and b) didn't decimalize their currency until like 1970.
The first, a metal cylinder, was exactly one kilogram in mass. The second was a copper rod the length of a newly proposed distance measurement, the meter.
Since that time, the way SI units are defined has changed. The copper rod, especially, would have been subject to thermal expansion and contraction. Sure, nowadays you can keep it in a climate-controlled room, but in the 18th century?
Jefferson was keen on the rationality of the metric system in the US and an avid Francophile. But Dombey's ship was blown off course, captured by English privateers (pirates with government sanction), and the scientist died on the island of Montserrat while waiting to be ransomed.
I've been to Montserrat. There are worse places to spend your last days. Well... there were, before a volcano devastated the island.
The reason for this history lesson? Over the last holiday period this hack has been cooking and is sick of this pounds/ounces/odd pints business â and don't even get me started on using cups as a unit of measurement.
You know, actually, I get it. I've mentioned before the difficulty in measuring, say, one cup of broccoli. And you're supposed to use a different "cup" for liquids and solids. So much better to use grams (or even ounces) for more consistency. Some recipes do that, and I'm grateful for it.
It's time for America to get out of the Stone Age and get on board with the International System of Units (SI), as the metric system used to be known.
That's... not precisely true, as I understand it. Which is to say, any measurement system that's self-coherent and is decimal (using powers of ten) is "a" metric system. SI is a particular metric system based on, primarily, the meter, the kilogram (not the gram, for some arcane reason) and the second.
There's a certain amount of hypocrisy here â I'm British and we still cling to our pints, miles per hour, and I'm told drug dealers still deal in eighths and 'teenths in the land of my birth.
Thank you for acknowledging that. Also, a British pint isn't the same as an American pint.
The cylinder and rod Dombey was carrying, the former now owned by the US National Institute of Standards and Technology, was requested by Jefferson because the British system in place was utterly irrational.
Perhaps, but once you learned it, you didn't want to change.
To make things even more confusing, individual settlements adopted their own local weights and measures. From 1700, Pennsylvania took control of its own measurements and other areas soon followed. But this mishmash of coins, distances and weights held the country back and Jefferson scored his first success in the foundation of a decimal system for the dollar.
So if you've ever wondered why we managed to use decimal currency while the UK held off for nearly 200 years, well, that's on Mr. Jefferson.
"I question if a common measure of more convenient size than the Dollar could be proposed. The value of 100, 1,000, 10,000 dollars is well estimated by the mind; so is that of a tenth or hundredth of a dollar. Few transactions are above or below these limits," he said
Which is kind of like Bill Gates' possibly apocryphal saying that no one would ever need more than 32 megabytes in computing power. Or whatever; can't be arsed to look it up.
Incidentally, though they share the same prefixes, computer memory isn't decimal; it's based on powers of two. Like, a kilobyte isn't 1000 bytes; it's 1024 (which is a power of 2). You know, just in case we weren't confused enough.
America was a new country, and owed a large part of the success of the Revolutionary War to France, in particular the French navy. The two countries were close, and the metric system appealed to Jefferson's mindset, and to many in the new nation.
I'm sure "many" others were vehemently opposed.
And this desire for change wasn't just limited to weights and measures. Also in 1793, Alexander Hamilton hired Noah Webster, who as a lexicographer and ardent revolutionary wanted America to cast off the remnants of the old colonial power. Webster wrote a dictionary, current versions of which can be found in almost every classroom in the US.
Yes, and from what I understand, that's why we spell "color" without a "u." Wow. Much change. Such revolution.
What has kept the metric system going is its inherent rationality. Rather than use a hodgepodge of local systems, why not build one based on measurements everyone could agree on configured around the number 10, which neatly matches the number of digits on most people's hands?
I would argue that base-12 makes much more sense. What's a quarter of 10? 2.5. What's a quarter of 12? A much more easily comprehended whole number, 3.
Above all it's universal, a gram means a gram in any culture. Meanwhile, buy a pint in the UK and you'll get 20oz of beer, do the same in America and, depending where you are, you'll likely get 16oz â a fact that still shocks British drinkers. The differences are also there with tons, and the odd concept of stones as a weight measurement.
Yeah, except a standard gram is a unit of mass, so its weight is different at the South Pole than it is at the equator, or in an airplane. As for the beer thing, most US breweries measure in ounces. Ask for a pint, and they'll verify if you mean "16 ounces."
As for stones, it took me an embarrassingly long time to figure that one out.
This is down to convoluted systems like 12 inches in a foot, three feet in a yard, 1,760 yards in a mile, compared to 100 centimeters in a meter and 1,000 meters to a kilometer. A US pound is 0.453592 kilograms, to six figures at least, these are the kind of numbers that cause mistakes to be made.
What's less well known is that the US actually uses SI standards. All of our common measurements are defined by SI units. This doesn't help with conversion issues, of course; as with the Mars probe that missed Mars (the author goes into this further).
And don't even get me started on Celsius and Fahrenheit. With Celsius water freezes at 0 degrees and boils at 100 at ground level, compared to 32 and 212 for Fahrenheit. It's a nonsensical system and the US is now the only nation in the world to use Fahrenheit to measure regular temperatures.
It's not "nonsensical;" it just uses different benchmarks. The advantage of Fahrenheit is its ability to easily record subtle differences in temperature. To get a similar granularity with Celsius, you have to use half-degrees. Also, it's a lot more impressive to say "it's 100 degrees out!" than "it's 38 degrees out!"
But yeah, okay, Celsius makes more sense.
The article delves into more history, and I won't repeat more of it, but it's there if you're interested.
I'll just share what, to me, is the stupidest reason for not converting (there are less stupid reasons, like retrofitting old piping systems): "We'd have to change football fields!"
For fuck's sake. It's not as if sports can't continue to use yards, feet, miles, whatever. Nothing says that abomination called American football can't continue to talk about the 30-yard line or whatever. Hell, there's even precedent: horse races are still measured in furlongs.
And have been fur a long time. |
March 27, 2023 at 10:06am March 27, 2023 at 10:06am
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A prompt for "JAFBG" [XGC]...
What's your opinion on bias in the media?
There's not enough of it.
Allow me to explain before jumping on me:
Every media outlet, indeed, every individual, has bias. Some of it is conscious; some of it isn't. With media outlets, some of them have an obvious slant in one direction or another. Others attempt to be neutral, though even choosing which stories to run shows some bias.
And it's in that attempt to be neutral that, sometimes, you run into problems.
Let's take a possibly extreme, fictional example. I'm totally cribbing this from Superman:
Say there's an independent scientist who discovers that the planet's about to blow up. He brings this to the planetary council. The planetary council, who all have a vested interest in the planet not blowing up, ignore his findings despite overwhelming evidence. So he takes it to a nice, objective, attempts-to-be-unbiased news distributor, presenting all of his scientific evidence and his argument for why the planet is going to explode.
The media outlet promptly checks his story with the council, which scoffs at the very idea. So the journal, in an attempt to cover "both sides of the debate," meticulously prints the opinions of the independent scientist, who had evidence, and the council, who basically just don't want the planet to blow up (not that I blame the council for that).
This gets out to the average Kryptonianmedia consumer, who probably doesn't understand all the science involved, and pretty soon the planet's divided in two parts (for a few days before being divided into a billion parts): one, we trust the scientist because he presented decent evidence, and two, we trust the council because, well, because they're the council, I guess.
There are the inevitable follow-up stories, interviews with the folks on the street. "What do you think of the claims that the planet's about to blow up?" "I think we should take this seriously." Or, "I think it's a load of hogwash" (Or whatever the inhabitants of that planet used to clean their equivalent of pigs.) (Yes, I know that's not where "hogwash" comes from.)
So, here's the problem with those media outlets: they're treating informed, scientific findings with the same weight as uninformed, wishful thinking, which in turn acquires the same weight as the blithering of anyone who has a vested interest in the matter.
Now that I think of it, maybe this was the real reason Clark Kent became a reporter.
But I digress. The point is that, in their attempt to be perfectly fair and unbiased, the news outlets did their planet a disservice, resulting in the planet blowing up and there being only one survivor (or two, or a whole bunch, depending on which timeline we're talking about... sorry, digressing again).
Now, sure, you get some old bearded guy with signs off the street who keeps proclaiming, "The world's about to end," and clearly, you either a) want to see his evidence or b) want to get as far from him as physically possible. But someone who researches this sort of thing? Maybe they have a point. Maybe ask other people who research these things, and not Bil-Bob in front of the weed dispensary. Sure, scientists can be wrong, but the ones to make that assessment are... other scientists, not politicians or social workers. Or, for that matter, journalists.
All of which is to say that if you have an article about how the Spring Solstice happens because of axial tilt, don't think you have to interview a flat-earther for an "alternative viewpoint." |
March 26, 2023 at 12:46pm March 26, 2023 at 12:46pm
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Pulling from the time portal, let's see here: A 30DBC response entry from January of 2020: "Invincible"
Ah, yes, the Before Time, when one could talk about travel and doing stuff with other people without garnering controversy. But the prompt was pretty simple and open-ended: What are you waiting for?
I'm one of those people - yes, those people - who usually answers rhetorical questions literally. And "What are you waiting for?" is normally a rhetorical question. "Will you take the trash out, dear?" "Sure." "...Well? What are you waiting for?" "The sweet release of the Apocalypse."
It's been pointed out to me, repeatedly, that this shit isn't funny. But it is.
When it's not a rhetorical question, it implies a call to action. "You say you want to go to Belgium. Your passport is up to date and you have money. What are you waiting for?"
For a while there, it was travel restrictions. Then it was just a general distrust of travel, combined with the shitshow that flying has become. Now, there's a war going on in Europe. Still.
But mostly, it implies that I should be doing something other than what I'm doing right now, but whatever it is I'm doing right now is generally what I really want to be doing. In the battle between "should" and "want," "want" wins every time. That's just the way I am.
Very likely, it's the way most people are. I'm just aware of it and turn it into a virtue.
Really, I'm not waiting for anything important. I have a few set plans: there's a wine tasting tomorrow, of Bordeaux wines hosted by an actual French person from France
I remember that vividly, as it was my final wine tasting before everything went to shit. Cold night, long walk (I did a recap in the next blog entry), delicious wine. Well, we have a wine tasting tour planned for this Saturday. Yes, April Fools' Day.
All in all, not much has changed from that entry—while at the same time, everything has. |
March 25, 2023 at 11:03am March 25, 2023 at 11:03am
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I've been wanting to share this arti- SQUIRREL!
Weâve always been distracted
Worried that technology is âbreaking your brainâ? Fears about attention spans and focus are as old as writing itself
If you suspect that 21st-century technology has broken your brain, it will be reassuring to know that attention spans have never been what they used to be.
No, technology hasn't broken our brains. Endgame capitalism has.
Even the ancient Roman philosopher Seneca the Younger was worried about new technologies degrading his ability to focus. Sometime during the 1st century CE, he complained that âThe multitude of books is a distractionâ.
For the record, this was after the fall of the Library of Alexandria.
By the 12th century, the Chinese philosopher Zhu Xi saw himself living in a new age of distraction thanks to the technology of print: âThe reason people today read sloppily is that there are a great many printed texts.â
"But Waltz, I thought Gutenberg invented printing in like 1450" No, he mostly just put together movable type and lots of actual moving parts.
And in 14th-century Italy, the scholar and poet Petrarch made even stronger claims about the effects of accumulating books
Depends how big your storage space is.
A torrent of printed texts inspired the Renaissance scholar Erasmus to complain of feeling mobbed by âswarms of new booksâ, while the French theologian Jean Calvin wrote of readers wandering into a âconfused forestâ of print.
Calvin was easily confused.
We can now worry that the cognitive circuitry of the brain has been ârewiredâ through interactions with Google Search, smartphones and social media. The rewired mind now delegates tasks previously handled by its in-built memory to external devices.
Yes. This is a good thing. Unless you want to win bar trivia games without cheating.
Writing during the 13th century, the grammarian Geoffrey of Vinsauf had plenty of advice for writers overwhelmed with information. A good writer must not hurry; they must use the âmeasuring line of the mindâ to compose a mental model before rushing into the work of writing: âLet not your hand be too swift to grasp the pen ⌠Let the inner compasses of the mind lay out the entire range of the material.â
That's great, Jeff, but we have a deadline to meet.
The article is fairly long, but has lots of interesting historical bits. Unfortunately, my attention span petered out about halfway down the page. |
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Let's do another random prompt from "JAFBG" [XGC]...
Share some of the worst advice you've ever heard or received.
Thing about bad advice is that if it's really bad advice, then it's blindingly obvious that it's bad advice. Well, I should say "blindingly obvious to anyone with a rudimentary brain," because apparently, people have actually attempted to charge their iPhones in a microwave.
No, what's worse is advice that seems, at first glance, to make sense, until you actually do it and face the consequences. Something like... "You know, you should always carry a balance month-to-month on your credit cards, to build your credit rating." Yeah... no. Oh, it might help with the credit rating compared to not using credit cards at all, but you'll end up paying loads of interest. The correct solution is to use the credit cards and pay them off in full at every billing cycle; there's usually a grace period before interest kicks in. (This applies in the US; I don't know about other places.)
Another lousy one is "follow your passion." I've no doubt it works for some people, especially people whose passion is lucrative. But, like, if your passion is video games, maybe pick something else for a career. Everything I've heard about the video game industry makes it seem tantamount to slave labor, which is enough to make your passion not your passion anymore. Maybe take up knitting.
On the other hand, "passion" used to be a synonym of "suffering," so maybe that's not as bad a piece of advice as I'm making it out to be.
I also can't abide "Be creative." I'm no expert on creativity, especially in other people, but for me, it's not something I can do on demand. "Oh, I need a special word here. Something different and unexpected. Something creative." "..." (8 hours later it comes to me) "Goddammit."
Which is related to the common writing advice, "Write what you know." While not inherently bad, it's constraining. I prefer "Know what you write."
But, by far, the worst advice you can ever give or receive?
"Be yourself."
First of all, it's literally impossible to be, say, Robert Downey Jr., unless you're actually Robert Downey Jr. One has no choice but to be oneself. At least, with current technology.
Second, and perhaps less literally, you know when you're really yourself? It's when you're, like, taking a shit and picking your nose at the same time. Best not to do that in public, you know. Or maybe during sex, with your inhibition transmission stuck in neutral. No one wants to see you having sex in public, do they? Well, I guess some people do. I won't kink-shame. But the vast majority of us would prefer you keep that behind your curtains.
No, in most situations, you don't want to be yourself; you want to be the best version of yourself.
As for how to do that, well, I'm all out of ideas for the day. |
March 23, 2023 at 10:35am March 23, 2023 at 10:35am
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I've said before that "natural" as a food or other product label is bullshit.
Good to know Cracked has my back.
You donât have to be an Amish man, churning butter and spitting distastefully at the idea of an electric can opener, to admit that the grip tech has on our lives is a pretty tight one.
I like it that way. Could do with less surveillance, but other than that, bring on the convenience.
So what is there to do? What humans do best: violently overcompensate for something that upsets them by swinging back in the other direction.
See also: tiny houses as a reaction to McMansions; "cluttercore" as a perfectly reasonable response to Marie Kondo.
This sort of panic pops up in all sorts of ways, from going back to flip phones, to deciding to eat like cavemen (despite the fact they were never known for their health).
Health, no. Probably stronger than fuck, though. But that wasn't because of what they ate, but how they caught it.
As such, thereâs been a massive movement of ânaturalâ products that have come along to capitalize on peopleâs distrust of words that start with âdi-â and end in â-ateâ, and, looking at their price tags, I do mean capitalize.
Everything you eat or drink is made of chemicals.
So, in usual fashion, five items on a countdown list.
5. Natural Peanut Butter
A jar of classic Jif or Skippy is an absolute delight in every possible way. Cutting into that perfect plateau atop a new jarâs contents, watching it curl and collect along the blade of a knife and then spreading it like sweet mortar onto your delivery method of choice.
Dammit, now I'm hungry. Goddamn porn writers...
I guess this one's a matter of opinion. I kind of like the "natural" labeled kind. I prefer almond butter, though.
4. Natural Deodorant
Natural deodorant. That old borderline oxymoron. Hereâs a tip: If anyone ever asks if youâre wearing natural deodorant, it means you smell like an upside-down porta potty.
This. Once we were thoroughly sold on the idea that we should smell like soap and not like human, there was really no going back.
For most of us though, the reason given for using natural deodorant is mostly avoiding aluminum, for antiquated reasons that plenty of scientists now say arenât proven.
I thought aluminum was just used in anti-perspirants, which I know come bundled with deodorants, but you can get the kind of the latter that's not also the former.
3. Oil Pulling
I first heard this referenced maybe a year or so ago? I don't know; my time sense is warped. And my mind went, "bullshit."
It comes from ancient medicine dating back to hundreds of years B.C. You know, back when they had medicine super figured out, and everyone was the epitome of health. Somehow, itâs come roaring back, mostly thanks to the kind of people who spend $200 a month on crystals because dying is scary. Unsurprisingly, the general medical consensus on the practice is, âLook, if you want to dump a bunch of oil in your mouth, weâre not going to stop you, but also, this is probably bullshit.â
Yeah, maybe they gave up on it because it wasn't doing squat.
Doubt it's harmful, though, so whatever.
2. Hair-Growth Cures
There are only two things proven to slow or reverse hair loss, and neither of them grow on trees: Theyâre the medications finasteride and minoxidil, and even they arenât guaranteed. If youâre wondering if some new natural, simple hair regrowth solution works, the answerâs right in front of you, in the form of a world full of balding men that sure wouldnât like to be.
It's questionable that one can consider most hair loss to be something that must be "cured." Want to be "all-natural?" Accept male pattern baldness; it's called that because it's genetic in origin. Now, I understand wanting to not be bald. But I also understand leaning into it like Jean-Luc Picard.
1. Vitamin C
I know, I know. Iâm sorry to come for your precious packet of no-sick powder, especially in a time of public health panic. But mega doses of vitamin C, in whatever form you ingest them, have been proven time and again to be psychosomatic more than scientifically helpful.
Funny thing about the placebo effect (which is psychosomatic): if it works, why not take advantage of it?
I'd always heard that you can't overdose on Vitamin C, that excess isn't bad for you. And that's probably true in doses that won't explode you first, though there is a such thing as too much of anything. But what is bad for you is spending a bunch of money on something that doesn't work as advertised, especially when you need to save that so you can pay at least part of your inevitable medical bills.
In the end, "all-natural" is a marketing strategy, nothing more. Plenty of natural things will make you sick or otherwise mess you up, like poison ivy or the mushrooms I've talked about in here before. While there are certainly human-developed chemicals that are dangerous, too, having a knee-jerk reaction to all of the stuff they put in food is probably taking things a bit too far. |
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There are a few more prompts for me to pick from at random in this incarnation of "JAFBG" [XGC]. This is one of them:
Tell us about a time when someone else's humour offended you.
I gotta admit, this is a tough one. I'm not one to get offended at a lot of things, and most of the things I do find offensive aren't jokes. Like when someone doubts that I know how to drive a manual transmission vehicle. Dude, I was driving a four-speed truck around the farm at 12, as soon as I could reach the pedals and see over the dashboard simultaneously, and my first five vehicles were all manual. I only drive an AT now because a) "standard" isn't standard anymore, or much less expensive, and b) back problems make it difficult to clutch on a regular basis. But I promise you, if I wanted to steal your piece of shit car, your stick-shift isn't going to deter me.
Certainly, general things exist that offend me. Censorship, for example. One of the things I like about this website is that we're not censored, only content rated. You want to write scat torture porn? Go right ahead. It's probably going to be XGC, but nowhere are you guaranteed an audience.
But I don't much like to talk about the few things that do offend me. This is because trolls tend to use it against me. Like, let's use a fictional example. Say I'm offended by, I dunno, birds. If someone feels like trolling me, that would give them a hook to do so. They could send me pictures of birds, leave dead birds on my doorstep (don't do that; it's my cat's job), sign me up for the Audubon newsletter, whatever.
Which brings me back around to jokes.
Now, this is where I wish we had better graphics capability here. Picture a 2x2 grid, like a Punnett square in genetics. Along the top you have the joker's intention: "Meant to offend" and "Didn't mean to offend." Along the side you have the recipient's attitude: "Doesn't look for offense" and "Looks for offense."
Now, as with the biology behind the Punnett square, in reality, things are more complicated, nuanced, and shaded, but I feel like these are the main categories. Let's look at them one by one.
"Meant to offend" x "Doesn't look for offense" - the recipient might not even realize that the joker was trolling, and might even be inclined to give them the benefit of the doubt. This, hopefully, takes the wind out of the joker's sails.
"Didn't mean to offend" x ""Doesn't look for offense" - usually not a problem.
"Meant to offend" x "Looks for offense" - oh, boy, is this wonderful for the joker/troll. They got exactly what they wanted: a rise out of the listener/viewer.
"Didn't mean to offend" x "Look for offense" - once called out, the joker will probably be apologetic. But it won't matter, because they'll be smeared all over social media for their inadvertent offense, even if they apologize afterward.
Whatever the case, the best way to handle these situations is to not assume the worst of the joker. If the person is particularly offensive, a simple explanation of why they're being offensive is a good way to start. Like "Hey, look, some people might take offense at your suggestion that we should run over bicyclists when they're on the road." If they continue to make jokes about scoring points for hitting bikers, then you know they're trolling and should be shunned.
Well, I've already banged on long enough, and I still can only remember one time when a joke actually offended me. As it was offensive to me, and not funny, I don't remember many of the details, but it went something like: a missionary knocked on a door, and an atheist answered. The missionary calmly told her about Jesus, and she went to slam the door in his face, but something kept the door from closing. She went to slam it again, still wouldn't close. Finally, the missionary said, "You might want to move your cat out of the way."
Like I said, not funny. But the way it was told (again, I can't remember it exactly) was in the standard format of a "joke." But look, I've been studying and practicing humor for decades, and I can't find anything funny about this. Is it an example of what passes for humor in evangelical circles? I know some evangelicals, and they have a sense of humor, so I don't know.
Is it trying to say that the atheist is blind to what's right under their noses? If so, they've got that backwards.
Is it a rag on cat people? That's one of the things that can offend me, so it's not only not funny, but deliberately hurtful.
Not to mention that jokes about hurting animals aren't funny in the first place.
But like I said, no point broadcasting my reaction for all the world to see (until now, when it becomes relevant as the response to a prompt). Just file it under "reasons not to engage with door-to-door religion vendors." |
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Nothing particularly deep today, fortunately...
The Fakelore of Food Origins
Where did potato chips come from? How about clams casino? Are the origin stories for these foods true, or do they fall into the category of âfakeloreâ?
Lots of origin stories are fauxlore. I've covered, in entries here in the past, misconceptions about the origin of our favorite F word, the "rule of thumb" thing, and, my personal hill to die on, the Blue Moon mistake.
But this one's specifically about one of my favorite things: food.
Can anyone own a recipe?
Ask Coca-Cola.
âThroughout history, claims for how new dishes were introduced range from the reasonably plausible to the absolutely impossible. Generally, most new dishes are not invented; they evolve.â
Distinction without a difference. Pizza, for example. The idea of putting stuff on bread dough and baking it couldn't have been too revolutionary. Changing up toppings was just a matter of using whatever was on hand. Adding pepperoni, now: that was the real revolution, the moment actual pizza was invented.
Several foods have fallen victim to fakelore. Take one of our most beloved snacksâthe potato chip. As folklorists William S. Fox and Mae G. Banner explain, many believe that the chip originated in Saratoga Springs, New York, in the mid-nineteenth century. After several complaints that his fried potatoes were sliced too thickly, a frustrated cook âsliced the potatoes paper thin, fried them in deep fat, salted them heavily, and served them up.â
Yeah, that one always struck me as suspect.
All food fakelore isnât as bitter, though. The origin of clams casino, a clam served on the half-shell and stuffed with herbs, aromatics, and bacon, is also one with questionable beginnings. As with the potato chip story, this dish was purported to be invented in 1917 to satisfy a wealthy and demanding customer, this time Mrs. Paran Stevens, the wife of a hotelier. She was described in her New York Times obituary as ânever hesitating to give full expression of her opinions about everybody and everything,â so it probably wasnât a huge shock when she showed up demanding something special.
More like Karen Stevens, am I right?
And here, I feel cheated, because those are the only two examples given. I think we need more, but I've been immersed in a video game, so can't be arsed to do anything else. I know there was some discussion about the origins of hamburgers a while back; I don't remember if I put it in the blog or not.
You know what else we need? Drink origins. As with food, drinks evolve, like how the martini wisely lost most of its original vermouth, and then, unfortunately, started to be made with vodka. Nothing wrong with liking vodka, but that's a vodka martini, as opposed to a martini, which is made with gin. And don't get me started on those sweet "-tini" abominations that were popular in the noughties.
Hm. Someone should research that and write articles or blog entries about the history of drinks. Someone who's not obsessed with a video game. |
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Spring begins today! My local weather celebrates the occasion by being colder than it's been for a month.
Speaking of annoyances, another prompt from "JAFBG" [XGC] today...
Share one 'hard limit' that would make you walk away from a relationship or friendship. Has that limit changed over time?
Let me answer the question before obeying the directive:
Yes. Yes, it has. And you might think that, as I get older and more desperate (in theory) for the kind of human connection that is denied to me due to my looks and personality, that I'd relax my standards a bit, but nothing could be further from the truth: I find I put up with less and less bullshit from people.
There are plenty of things I'll put up with in a friend, though, that I wouldn't want to deal with in a more intimate relationship. Veganism, or some other eating disorder, for example. If it's a friend, it doesn't affect me; eat what you want (if you try to claim moral high ground for it, though, we'll have a problem). But I'm not going to eat penance food, nor am I going to stop cooking meat-based dishes. Also, I'm pretty proud of my cooking, and would want to share it. The point being that it wouldn't make me any less a friend to someone, but that's all we'd be: friends.
So we need a dealbreaker that works for all kinds of relationships, and picking one is pretty obvious:
Being rude to service workers.
Now, obviously, all of us have bad days, sometimes. I'm not talking about the occasional snap. I mean a repeated pattern of treating cleaners, servers, receptionists, baristas, cashiers, bartenders, etc. (especially bartenders) like The Help.
Whether conscious or not, this kind of behavior is reflective of a hierarchical attitude: "some people are beneath me in social status and can be safely scorned; others are above me and must be appeased." So that's what I watch out for in potential friends: how they treat those of perceived lower social status.
And no, this doesn't lead to a virtue paradox: I don't think that rude people are beneath me; I just don't hang out with them if I can avoid it. |
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Today's random draw from the archives is from not so very long ago: October of 2021.
It concerned, as one might glean from the title, English spelling. "Speling Iz Dificult"
As it's less than two years old, the link is still there and, if you missed it the first time or want a reminder, here it is again.
In that entry, I noted:
I will say this, though: At some point, the spelling/pronunciation link becomes a shibboleth. I think people use it to identify in-groups. For example, in my area, there's a road with the name Rio Road. We use it to spot tourists. "Yeah, I hear (business) is on Ree-oh Road." Oh, they must be from out of town; the proper pronunciation is Rye-oh. Or there's a nearby town named Staunton. You hear someone pronounce it "stawn-ton" and you know they ain't from around here and need to be watched carefully and maybe lynched.
Weird story about that. Last week, I had to visit a dentist whose office is on a court just off Rio Road. It's on the other side of the city, but it's a small city. Nevertheless, I had Google Maps connected to my car's system (sorcery) so I could hopefully be aware of traffic and/or speed traps on the way there and back.
Anyway, the point is, as I was leaving, the Google voice went: "In five hundred feet, turn right onto Ree-oh Road." Annoyed because I'd just been to a dentist, I snarled, "Rye-oh!" A few seconds later, it reminded me: "Turn right onto Ree-oh Road." Not wanting to take anymore bullshit from a fake voice, I grunted, "Rye-oh!"
Then, after I made the suggested turn (really, the only other option was turning left), it said, "Stay on Rye-oh Road for a quarter of a mile."
I nearly crashed. Had it actually listened to me? Had it actually learned?
Another bit, not nearly as portentous:
Probably the worst offender in the orthography world, though, is the geoduck.
You see a word like that, and you think: oh, it must be gee-oh-duck. And it's probably a bird, right? An... earth bird? Well, obviously you're an ignorant rube and unworthy of respect because you didn't know it's pronounced "gooeyduck" and it's actually an enormous mollusk. How in the inconsistent hell do you get "gooey" from "geo?" I mean, seriously, goddamn, STOP IT.
I was remiss, then, in not noting that "geoduck" came to English from a PNW Native language. It's possible that the "geo" part was a word for genitals, which, if you look at the mollusk, you might understand why. Nevertheless, there is no excuse whatsoever for spelling it like that. It's not like the Lushootseed language used Roman letters like English. Just do what you did with every other Native word, like Manhattan or Potomac, and fucking give it an English spelling closer to how it's pronounced. |
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"Sure, astronomy's interesting, but what use is it?"
And they said science and the arts were incompatible.
Itâs a well known fact that an 18-year-old Mary Shelley (then still Mary Wollstonecraft, after her mother) wrote Frankenstein at Lord Byronâs house (actually a rented mansion on Lake Geneva) after the poet, during a streak of bad weather, challenged his house guests to write their own ghost stories.
So well-known, in fact, that they have to lead with it.
The article goes on to describe, in Shelley's early-19th-century words, how she struggled to come up with said "ghost story."
The problem, in hindsight, was that she needed to invent an entire genre of literature to get her story across.
But then one night, when she had gone to bed lateâafter âthe witching hour had gone byââit came to her. âWhen I placed my head on my pillow, I did not sleep, nor could I be said to think,â she wrote.
My imagination, unbidden, possessed and guided me, gifting the successive images that arose in my mind with a vividness far beyond the usual bounds of reverie. I sawâwith shut eyes, but acute mental vision,âI saw the pale student of unhallowed arts kneeling beside the thing he had put together. I saw the hideous phantasm of a man stretched out, and then, on the working of some powerful engine, show signs of life, and stir with an uneasy, half vital motion.
The state between waking and sleep is called "hypnagogic." That's from some Greek words for "leading to sleep" (or so I'm told). When I read those words for the first time, reading the novel when I was much younger, that's the first thing I thought of—that she'd experienced a hypnagogic hallucination, something kin to a dream.
Explaining it might ward off any supernatural explanation, but it doesn't take away from her creativity and originality one bit. In fact, it enhances it: that vision wasn't sent by a muse or a god, but sprung like Athena from her own mind.
Well. Back to the astronomy part:
Reports have differed as to how long it actually took Shelley to come up with her storyâone night? three?âand some scholars have questioned Shelleyâs timeline. But ten years ago, astronomers at Texas State University used astronomical tables and topographic measurements to pinpoint the exact hour that fateful vision came to her. Like any good legend, it all hung on the position of the moon.
And, honestly, that's a thin hook indeed.
âThere is no explicit mention of a date for the ghost story suggestion in any of the primary sourcesâthe letters, the documents, the diaries, things like that,â Olson said. âNobody knows that date, despite the assumption that it happened on the 16th.â And indeed, they determined that it would have been between 2am and 3am on the morning of June 16, by the light of a gibbous moon, which would, by then, have cleared the hill outside her window.
The moon returns to the same general position in the sky roughly an hour later each day/night. Seems to me that there's quite a margin of error possible, here: was it 1 am on the 15th? 2 am on the 16th? 3 am on the 17th? Sure, I'm not an astronomer, but without more information, it sounds more to me more like "rough guess" than "pinpoint."
Which is fine. Whatever. The time is less important than the story.
âMary Shelley wrote about moonlight shining through her window, and for 15 years I wondered if we could recreate that night,â Olson said. âWe did recreate it. We see no reason to doubt her account, based on what we see in the primary sources and using the astronomical clue.â
There was always the possibility that she made up the introduction, same as she made up the story. The literary conceit at the time was to always write as if you were telling a true tale. But from what I understand, the dudes in the house had similar narratives.
In any case, sometimes the search itself is enough. And maybe we all learn a little something new. |
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Heading back to "JAFBG" [XGC] for a random prompt...
Tell us about a time when you were proven wrong.
Me? Wrong? Unpossible.
Okay, no, that's a joke. I'm wrong a lot. Sometimes even right here in this blog. I'm an adult, though; if you can show me I'm wrong, I'll swallow some corvid and admit it.
There's lots of things I could be wrong on, but until shown otherwise, I'll stick to my opinions. Things like the absence of free will, the arbitrariness of the Gregorian calendar, the reality of time and space, the mistaken definition of a Blue Moon (which is related to that Gregorian calendar thing), the absence of space aliens on or around Earth, the dangers of evolutionary psychology, and much more—all of those things are topics that I've discussed in here, that I have a high level of confidence in. But, say, if a flying saucer landed in my street and disgorged a three-tentacled, seven-eyed mauve creature with a tricorder and universal translator, well, I'd change my mind about aliens real quick. Assuming that I haven't decided to experiment with magic mushrooms, that is.
Worse, though, are the things I'm absolutely certain of. Those are dangerous, because, like anyone else, I get stubborn, and invested in my ignorance.
Let me just come up with an example off the skin of my ass:
Long ago, when I was married, my wife bought a shower curtain. This is not such an unusual thing, I think; I'd been using the same shower curtain for way too long, and I can own that. Fine. This particular one didn't even have any designs; it was just the clear plastic kind that hangs down inside the tub to keep most of the shower water inside.
She also bought a bottle of, I don't recall the brand name, Tilex or something. Used for spraying down the shower tiles after use, supposed to keep mold and mineral scale from showing up. Again, something I'd been neglecting. What can I say? I lived (basically) alone before she moved in. Had housemates, but also had another bathroom for them.
So I proceeded to, every time I took a shower (which, contrary to what you might have inferred from all of the above, was every day), spray down not only the tiles but also the shower curtain, on the (what I thought at the time was a) perfectly sound principle that it would keep us from spending money on another shower curtain for a while.
She found out that I was doing this and we got into an argument. "We can just buy a new shower curtain" was basically her position on it. I disagreed; a shower curtain, like any piece of furniture, should last a lifetime. That was my position.
It was years—years—later that I had an epiphany:
A bottle of Tilex (or whatever) was like five bucks.
A clear plastic shower curtain was like ten bucks, and takes about five minutes to install.
The epiphany was that all the Tilex I had been blasting on the curtain would end up costing more than it would to, as she suggested, simply replace the shower curtain every year or so. So, from a purely financial perspective, I was completely, utterly, incontrovertibly, wrong. Now, I could still argue that, environmentally, I was in the right, what with all the plastic waste and all, but to be perfectly honest, that didn't enter into my calculations.
Thing is, by then, we'd already separated, and I didn't feel the need to confess my wrongness to her at that point. These days, I use two shower curtains: the inside clear plastic one which gets replaced every year or so (environment notwithstanding), and an opaque cloth outer one. I'm not even sure why; I don't share the bathroom with anyone, so it's unlikely that somebody would come in while I'm showering. I just like the design, which has cats.
That epiphany, though, made me wonder: what else am I sure of that just isn't the case? As I'm no longer married or otherwise partnered up, there's no one to set me straight on these things. Not even my cats. The only time they complain is when I'm five minutes late with their dinner.
So, yes, I was wrong. And probably still am, but if so, I wouldn't know it. |
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Today's "You're Doing It Wrong" article is from, not Lifehacker for once, but Quartz.
Hahaha. Yeah. Right. Eight hours a night isn't enough, whatever income you're making isn't enough, sex twice a day isn't enough, and one slice of pizza definitely isn't enough.
I suspect this article was written by a cat.
For something that we spend a third of our lives doing (if weâre lucky), sleep is something that we know relatively little about. âSleep is actually a relatively recent discovery,â says Daniel Gartenberg, a sleep scientist who is currently an assistant adjunct professor in biobehavioral health at Penn State.
"Discovery?"
As anyone who has lay awake at night contemplating the complexities of the universe can attest, sleep is a slippery beast.
Reminds me of the old joke about the dyslexic agnostic insomniac, who stayed up all night wondering if there is a dog.
There are also many, many misconceptions about sleep: that you can âcatch upâ on the weekend for lost hours of shuteye.
Oh? See "Sleeper Agent"
That you can get by on four hoursâ sleep a night.
You can, for a little while. Source: experience.
That a nip of whiskey before bed helps you sleep better.
Even I, with my alcohol-positive lifestyle, knew that. I just don't use it as an excuse NOT to drink.
Even that eating cheese before snoozing causes nightmares.
I rather enjoy eating just before bedtime. It usually results in the most vivid and memorable dreams. That could be a kind of placebo effect, but who cares, if it works?
To set the record straight about being horizontal, Quartz spoke to one of the worldâs most-talked-about sleep scientists.
Yawn.
Heâs also an entrepreneur who has launched several cognitive-behavioral-therapy apps, including the Sonic Sleep Coach alarm clock.
So this whole thing is an ad. A crummy commercial.
Oh well, at least it's free, unlike most interesting stuff on the internet these days.
Some topics we cover:
why 8.5 hours of sleep is the new eight hours
Spoiler: It's not, really. They're including time trying to get to sleep and wake up and coming up with "total bedtime."
the genes that dictate if youâre a morning person or a night owl
Like that's going to change anything, except that now you get to blame genetics for something.
why you should take a nap instead of meditating
Finally, an idea I can wholeheartedly support.
how sleep deprivation can be a tool to fight depression
Another spoiler: this is, to say the least, disputable.
why sleep should be the new workerâs rights
Right, like anyone has time to fight for worker's rights while holding down three jobs and a side hustle.
and tips on how to get a better nightâs rest (hint: itâs not your Fitbit)
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that the answer is the Sonic Sleep Coach Alarm Clock.
The rest of the articleadvertisement is in interview form, and I won't reproduce much else from it. It's actually pretty interesting, and covers more than just the topics I just listed and snarked on. So reading it shouldn't put you to sleep. |
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Now, one from "JAFBG" [XGC]:
What's the stupidest question you've ever been asked?
As tempted as I am to glibly answer, "This one," that would be both unfair and untrue. The problem is, out of all the stupid questions I've been asked, it would be very difficult to pick just one. Plus, my mind blanks on most of them. I selectively edit them out just like I edit out the stupid questions I've asked, except at 3 am when I lie awake going "Why did I ask that lady with the chihuahua if her dog was a Dachshund?" (Or whatever.) Everyone's mind blanks at some point, even mine.
I've never worked retail, though, so I suspect I've been spared the worst of the depths of derp. Things like pulling an item off of a display with a great big ALL ITEMS $4.99 sign above it, with $4.99 stamped on each instance of the item, and then turning to the nearest employee and going "Excuse me, how much is this?"
It's a good thing I don't work retail, because in such an instance, I'd be sorely tempted to go, "That? Oh, that's fifteen bucks, cash only, and I can help you with that."
Anyone smart enough to ask a question has enough intelligence to realize that they don't know everything, so I tend to be somewhat forgiving (believe it or not) of ordinary stupid questions. There are exceptions, though, like when someone asked me "Why isn't there a White History Month?" (If you need to know why that question is stupid, go Google it before asking me.)
Some questions seem stupid, but they're really attempts to strike up conversation. At the moment, though, I don't always recognize that, but then, like four weeks later, I'd be like, "Oh, they were just trying to find something to talk about."
Which leads me to what might well be the stupidest question I've ever been asked, which, in the grand scheme of things, really isn't all that stupid, but, like I said, I tend to blank these things out.
Scene: I'm in a senior facility visiting a friend's elderly grandmother who, while physically less than able, still had her mind, hearing, and vision. We'd stopped at a convenience store to get some things for her and also for us. One of the things I got for me was a bottle of Coke. Like, the trademark wasp-waisted bottle with the red label and distinctive cursive Coca-Cola logo in white. Absolutely unmistakable for anything else. I pull this thing out and take a slug.
And Friend's Grandma asks me, "Do you drink Coke?"
Before you pass it off as a "senior moment," like I said, this lady was sharp as nails, usually. If I'd been less stupid myself, I'd have answered something like "No, I just use it to clean battery terminals." But no, I was taken off guard by being asked if I drink Coke as I was sucking on a bottle of actual Coke. So I think I just nodded.
Again, though, it occurred to me like a week later that she was just trying to find an entry point to a conversation.
Such a thing, however, is the nature of some stupid questions, and if you can't tell the difference, there in the moment, between actual stupid questions and awkward overtures, well, then, who's really the stupid one? |
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Behold, an article related to writing. From Cracked:
Writing is inventing, and many everyday words and phrases have come from the magnificent and maddening minds of screenwriters.
And from me, though I haven't managed to convince anyone else of that.
Someone yells âDerp!â and we immediately think BASEketball.
...No. Never saw it.
A person says âred pillâ and up pops The Matrix in our noggins as we try not to spontaneously combust.
And there I immediately dismiss anything the person has to say. Not because of The Matrix, but because it's been appropriated by asshats.
Come to think of it, I wonder who came up with "asshat?"
Turns out it's not all that clear , but the Coen brothers seem to have had a hand in it, or at least a finger, so that's okay.
Now, as usual, this is a countdown list, with 12 items. I'm not going to comment on all of them.
11. âCatfishâ
The 2010 documentary, Catfish, was the first to coin the term describing a person who scams someone by using a fake identity.
Huh. Seems to me it was older than that. Maybe that was just the practice, which is indeed much older than that.
10. âGunslingerâ
It turns out that no one called those supposed gun-loving sharpshooters of the Wild West âgunslingers.â The term was coined in the 1920 Western movie Drag Harlan, and has become a staple term ever since.
Quick, someone alert Stephen King. Also, don't bother with the movie.
7. âGoogleâ
Thank Buffy the Vampire Slayer for being so tech savvy and turning âgoogleâ into a verb. The moment happened in the 2002 episode, âSelfless,â in which Willow asks Buffy: âHave you googled her yet?â
Almost every company wants their brand name to become generic. Like Kleenex or Band-Aid, or Coke. Unless, of course, it's pernicious, in which case, lawyers get involved.
5. âNimrodâ
Another word that was already in existence â its original definition means âskilled hunterâ â but was changed in meaning thanks to Daffy Duck from Looney Tunes fame who used it to insult hunter Elmer Fudd, implying that Fudd's âa buffoon.â
This one, I knew. Nimrod is from the Bible. I like Looney Tunes' take on it better.
3. âFriend Zoneâ
Written as part of Joey Tribbianiâs dialogue in âThe Blackoutâ episode of Friends, the phrase took a while to catch on and, perhaps, would've been lost in the ether ⌠if it werenât for every second online publication writing a puff piece about the dreaded and, letâs face it, entitled concept of being âfriend zoned.â
Pretty sure I remember that from before, too. But I could be wrong. Also, I never saw a single episode of Friends; it was on during the time I swore off (and at) television.
There's lots more at the link. Words have power, and if you can come up with one that sticks, well, that's really fetch. |
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Let's tackle another prompt from "JAFBG" [XGC]...
What's your opinion on people who are uninsured seeking donations after disasterous events?
Honestly don't give a shit.
Everyone knows, or should know, that insurance companies are wankers. Just the other day, I saw an article about how some of them lowballed payouts for their customers facing hurricane losses in the Wang of America. I apologize for the New York Post link, but I saw the same story in WaPo (which is more respectable but paywalled).
Itâs been more than four months since Hurricane Ian ransacked Floridaâs Fort Myers Beach â but many residents are battling with insurance companies, and one family says theyâve been offered just $500 compensation for their house, which was left unlivable.
To be fair, lots of homes in the Wang are unlivable, hurricane or not. But generally not the ones in Fort Myers Beach.
In any case, the point is, insurance of any kind is kind of a gamble. Not like mad-money casino gambling, but even absent corporate shenanigans, you're paying for peace of mind. If nothing ever happens to your (whatever), then all that money was, in hindsight, wasted. But only in hindsight. Meanwhile, insurance companies have actuaries who, like the oddsmakers in a casino, determine, in aggregate, how much they have to charge in relation to expected payouts from claims in order for the CEO to buy a second (insured) yacht.
I'm not saying it's a scam, though it sometimes is. But the odds are not in your favor. It's largely about risk management, and while the odds are low that something bad will happen to your house (unless you live in Florida or near freight train lines), in the event that it does, the consequences, if you're not insured, can be doubly catastrophic.
Now, if you take the risk and don't get insurance, that's on you. Asking for donations? Well, it's not like you're, say, a bank demanding taxpayer bailout money; those donations are entirely voluntary. If someone feels sorry enough for you and has extra cash, so what? None of my damn business.
One would need to be mindful of the tax consequences, which I'm unclear on. Gifts are generally not taxable by the IRS in the US up to a certain amount; and, over that amount, oddly, as I understand it, the taxes are the responsibility of the donor, not the recipient. No, I don't understand it. No, it doesn't make sense. No, it doesn't have to make sense. But then (again based on my limited understanding), insurance payouts are also nontaxable. And I have less than no idea how other countries handle it.
I mean, I wouldn't give 'em a dime. But that's just me being an asshole. |
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