Abuse doesn't have to be physical. It can also be emotional. And seeing your parents killed in front of you and no one doing anything--that's pretty abusive. So yes, that could very well be a bit stresser and a good way for your character to grow and change. You just need to use that to actually have your character grow.

Sounds like you've gotten some good advice!





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