Hello, Xarthin! Cool name. I apologize for not responding sooner, I didn't see your post. That's why learning to TAG (me) here on WdC will be helpful for you. I'm gonna list you a few lessons to answer your questions, because unfortunately, some things around here are just a bit to learn. However, once you know them, you'll be bopping around like a pro! I see you met Schnujo's NOT Doing NaNoWriMo already, she's a trip. A good one

The official words on Fans & Favorites: "Fans Tab"  & "My Favorites and Fans" 

Then, there's a video tutorial that a member made: "Getting Started #4 - Communication"  And I highly recommend watching her stuff, it's all new.

When you're ready, come back to WhataLand with this: "Tagging ~ #2.2" 

After all that, let me know if you have any questions! It is a bit tricky in that Fans & Faves have multiple duties. In fact, this whole place is really quite unique. Never let it get you down though, and I am happy to answer questions or rope someone more qualified into doing so. I know the place pretty well, but I could never know it all! I also still have many links to put in here. Yikes.